Archive for May 2009

Gay Marriage Questions

Ok, this is a serious post and I have serious questions from both sides. Hopefully I can get feedback from both and it can stay civil everyone. Cause I don’t like not having the knowledge, but I truly don’t have anywhere close to me to get the knowledge and opinions from either side.

Is the word marriage one of the big sticky points?

The only complaints I’ve heard from the other side keep saying that marriage is between a man and a woman, ok, well then how about a civil union? Does civil union offend the gay/lesbian community?

Relationship Regrets

I am working really hard on a no regrets live. It’s not easy, but having to make the best decision at the time is all we can do. Thankfully, I do have others in my life to remind me of why that was the decision at times.

But I am helping to clean out my Grandma’s MIL apartment and all the sudden it snapped in my head. Yes, i know it should have sooner, but truly I’ve been brainwashed to other thoughts. In the last 3 years I have worked hard at growing my adult relatiionships with my mother’s sisters. Why would it be any different on my father’s side? Why did it take this long to hit me? I’m a little sad it took this long, but I will be just fine about it, truly.

Facebooking your Tweets

I’m going to help some of you out with your social networking skills. I know these end up being a little ranty, but I’m going to try not to get so cranky as I write this one.

There are quite a few programs out there to keep track of your tweets. Most of these now will also post to your facebook and other accounts. Here’s the deal, when they post to your facebook or plurk account, it is obvious that it’s a tweet after just a few posts. Especially if you say hey tweets or hit an @reply.

Positive Focus

My life is in a big turmoil right now. Last week was a horrible week. Every day got worse and worse with the week ending up with Grandma in the hospital and taking her off all machines. It’s been so much emotional work.

I’m starting this post because I need to push all the positives back into my head. It’s difficult. This week has started off rough just because I’m so emotionally burnt out. But I know there are positives in EVERY SINGLE DAY and I want to list 15 of them right this minute.