Evil, mean, bullies online
May 26, 2008 by queen of all
Filed under bitchy day, business
I’ve decided to be the better person and not get into an argument on a friends message boards. There is a certain person online that constantly has to put down other people. I do believe that may be the definition of a bully? Putting down other people to make yourself feel better. Any time you contradict what she is saying she is all defensive and sooner rather than later the who “I’m a single mother that has made a ton of money with my businesses while raising my children, blah, blah, blah, SHUT THE FUCK UP!”
I’m not even going to get into the single mom thing in this post because then it would be too long and no one would read it, but beware, it’s coming soon.
So today this woman totally attacked another poster. I mean no holds barred, mean. Now I have been brought up that if you want someone to change their views you give them knowledge. You don’t attack them and tell them how stupid they are. This will only lead them to tune out out. DUH
But it was brought up that we don’t have to read her posts. You’re right, I don’t. Unfortunately this means that I will no longer be frequenting a lot of different boards. It has been hours since I read the posts she put up and I’m still pissed. I don’t have the energy to waste on someone with so much hate in them. I bet if she got laid she’d be a much happier person!
So I’m being bigger and I’m posting here. I will contact the owner of the boards and let them know about this attack because I’m pretty sure it says in the agreement that you can’t attack other posters like she did. But either way, I will make sure that I am on boards from now on that she is not on. I can’t get away from it on a couple of boards and they were my home first so she can’t chase me away from them anyway. lol









Anita on Mon, 26th May 2008 3:50 pm
i hear ya! do you think for a second that i agree with every single person i come across online? heck no! does this mean i should tell them how stupid they are every chance i get?
you meet all kinds of people with all kinds of belief, point of views, etc. be an adult and learn to keep your jerk-off replies to yourself. while you’re at it grow up and learn that you all have different beliefs!
the ones i love the most are the one’s that are in business! you really must maintain a certain level of professionalism – you really do.
what would you do if you walked into a brick and morter store and the owner was literally bashing someone in there. let’s say because the customer is wearing a fur coat and the owner is an animal activist. would you really stay and purchase?
nah, i’d be on my way out the door.
Lauren on Mon, 26th May 2008 6:15 pm
Looks like the owner of that particular board agrees with you Val, because the thread is gone from her board.
This woman owns a business, and I’m sure anyone who is really familiar with her is running in the other direction. Unfortunately she’s hurting her own business the more she attacks others – these are for all to see! Not exactly the best way to network – not to mention the bad impression she’s leaving of how her customer service must be, or how she might treat those who chose to be Consultants under her.
We all have our issues – and she’s no exception. She needs to try to stop making herself one!